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My rights and responsibilities once parentage is established

The legal parent of a child has the right to a relationship with that child. This includes parental responsibilities, like decision-making power and parenting time (previously known as "visitation ").

The parent must also provide financial support until the child turns 18 (sometimes 19) and graduates from high school. This may include:


A parent may also have to pay for the child to go to college. This is limited to the cost of in-state tuition at the University of Illinois Champaign/Urbana. It includes room and board, a standard meal plan, and transportation costs. This continues until the child gets a bachelor's degree or turns 23.

Mediation

If parentage is established but the parents cannot agree on issues like child support or parenting time, the judge may send them to mediation . Mediation is when someone else (a neutral "third party ") tries to get the parents to come to an agreement. If that doesn't work, the judge will decide these issues and a hearing or series of hearings may be necessary.

If parentage is not established

If a person is not a child's legal parent, they have no legal right to be involved in the child's life. They also do not have to provide financial support for the child.

Last full review by a subject matter expert
January 23, 2025
Last revised by staff
October 12, 2025

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